Category: Positive Attitude

Beyond the Hill

onestepforward

 

Have you ever wondered why you keep on with your dream of your own business?
You can see it just over the hill. You know it is a sound idea and you know there are clients out there who need what you have to give. However, when you look at how far you have gotten towards that dream versus where you thought you would be by now in your business, do you get frustrated?
We all do.
I’m beginning to think that human beings have always looked beyond the horizon and we make goals that no human being could do with the time, life and things that come up in our life.


For example, I had made the goal to create a membership site and have it ready by end of June but who knew that spammers would come and violate inside WordPress so I have to slow down in my forward motion.
I had a good frustrated, grumpy day growling at my poor husband (who knows nothing about internet and WordPress) and snapped at clients. Luckily (my husband says) I can cry and get rid of the frustration and sit down, take a deep breath and ask “okay how do I fix this?”


Well, three days later of research and contacting busy support desks, I may have resolved this issue and I can move forward again.


What helped was deciding “okay, yes, I have this issue but what can I do else to get closer to the dream?” So, I moved one step forward by building a sales page. There isn’t a membership site to sell but …Wow! when that membership site is built , it will be amazing and I have an awesome sales page waiting for it.
So, when you are feeling overwhelmed with life, time and challenges hindering your progress, ask yourself, what is one step forward today even if it is just a blog post or a video or something else you can create to move you forward.

Categories: Mindset, Positive Attitude

Always Be Positive

Be  Awesome

 

Develop Positive Habits the Easy Way by Using Choice Bias

Choice bias is the reason why the same sandwich tastes better when you order it off a menu compared to when someone else picks it out for you. It’s also an effective tool for teaching yourself good habits.

Studies have shown that our preference for making our own choices can be used to reinforce learning.

Changes in brain activity make us more likely to repeat actions that lead to rewards. This is especially true when we’re in charge of the prizes. Learn how to use choice bias in your everyday life and get the results you want.

How to Use Choice Bias in General

1. Pick your own rewards. Use what you love and turn your virtuous actions into habits that will become ingrained in your character.

             You might be motivated by a special dessert or an extra hour of sleep on Sunday morning.

2. Be flexible. On the other hand, now you know that choice bias is basically an illusion.

            That gift certificate your boss is offering you for working on a holiday is just as valuable as the one you’d select for yourself.

3. Recognize your own power.

          Even if you feel powerless, there are choices available to you. You may be unable to change your circumstances, but you can change your response.

4. Limit your options.

           As much as we love choices and rewards, you can have too many of them. Trim your list down to avoid feeling overwhelmed.

5. Act quickly.

              Strengthen your lessons by acting quickly. It’s okay if you treat yourself to both a pedicure and a car wash. Prompt reinforcement helps your brain make more powerful associations.

6. Repeat and repeat.

               Forming new habits requires sustained effort. Fortunately, that means you’ll get to enjoy even more rewards.

How to Apply Choice Bias in Specific Situations

1. Step up your parenting.

          You may remember your mother asking if you wanted to eat your carrots and broccoli, or just your broccoli. Choice bias works with children as well as adults.

2. Advance your career.

           There may be long stretches of time between raises and promotions. Give yourself a pat on the back with fresh flowers or a new book each time you complete a training course.

3. Reinvigorate your business plans.

            Maintain your spirits if you’re struggling with starting a new business.  Give yourself a break occasionally. Show yourself a good time on a limited budget with free movies from your local library or a walk through the park.

4. Make housework more fun.

          Do you procrastinate when it comes to cleaning the toilet or mowing the lawn? You’ll start looking forward to your least favorite tasks when you know that there’s a reward afterwards.

5. Stick to your diet.

           Snacks are easier to resist when you have a variety of nutrient dense foods in your meal plan. Try vegetables from every color group to help you get all the required vitamins and minerals.

6. Quit smoking.

           Giving up tobacco is the most important health decision you can make. Studies show that multiple strategies can increase your chances of success. Wear your nicotine replacement patch and attend support groups while you entice yourself with attractive rewards for staying away from cigarettes.

7. Exercise regularly.

          Are you having a hard time talking yourself into climbing on the treadmill each afternoon? Your workouts will seem more pleasant if you alternate among yoga, running, and swimming.                           Variety is the key!

Channel the power of individual choice and make it work for you.

What could be better than strengthening positive habits while you reward yourself for making smart decisions?  

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